Contradiction: The Truth (2)
We all are human beings living with vice and virtues. So we must not criticize other person for his fault. It is also human weakness to criticize others for their faults, even if they are not at fault we try to prove them at fault and then enjoy criticizing the person. While sitting in group, one feeble person is targeted for the amusement of the group. But in principle we cannot justify such an act. On the other hand, without criticism, the process of development is hampered. A constructive approach towards criticism is recommendable. This is another contradiction of life.
Disapproval is the first step towards the criticism. Then finding of the mistakes and revealing them to the concerned without any trace of condemnation may be a constructive step, but finding of mistakes is a very difficult task because a mistake may not be a mistake. In such case the act becomes a mal-intended criticism. If in the act of finding of the mistakes, the element of disapproval is eliminated, we may avoid the allegation of being a mal-intended critic.
Disapproval derives non-acceptance. Gradually it generates a void between the two persons. Every man has a critic within. That critic has to be trained to be useful to the society. Also each person has to be trained to listen his own criticism without becoming aggressive. This, no external agency will do for us, we only have to train us. But someone is needed to show the path.
This is a way to manage the contradiction playing vital role in the universe.
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